Fake till you Make it that's what everyone says have something you hate about your self well pretend you can do it or you already are that way for a time and you'll start to believe it and then it will come true well I've been pretending or act like I have confidence and high self esteem for almost if not have of my life and I still don't really believe in my self I can say ““i” believe in myself” I could even say “I BELIVE IN MY SELF”If I was foursed to. the same-thing if you would ask me I thought I was beautiful on the spot I would say yes but I would not be making eye contact ask me to look at my self in the in mirror and say 'I am beautiful' I couldn't do it I would run away and make excuses thats what faking it taught me to run away and make excuses

so have most  pepole and  i'm assuming here  have  heard of  "faking it till you  make it"and  im not  trying  to say  that  the hole

consept  is  out of wack,it might work very well for some  pepole or it  could be good  for  small time periods like  for a job interveiw  lets say normally your a very shy person but now  you have  this job intveiw so you make shour  dressed  proprly  you  practice  making  eyeconect you paractice speaking.you  go  in and even though  your so  nerveose  you want  to  run away  as  far and as  fast as  you can you dont you  go  into  the inveiw with  fake confedance but  you dont realize  it and   you  asce  the interveiw got a job.however predenteng  you have  condefdince when you dont  for a live  time  is  diffrent i  think again  this  based  on my  opiotion.